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Trying on the apron for size

I suppose I might be posting twice today... or not. Depending on if I get a chance to go online while at home. I've been wanting to put up an entry with pictures in them. But since I am mostly online at work and I didn't bring my camera along with me to upload any photos, plus I didn't want the hassle of copying photos from my FB, I figured I might as well put in something of an update.

Anyways, for the past few weeks, my sister and I have been the caretaker for our house, while the parents settle in Hippo. It's been an interesting journey so far (I know... how can it be interesting?!). It sort of reminded me of the time when I was studying way over in Perth. Trying to take care of the house, do laundry, cook and clean - very domesticated journey I'd say. For Buffy and I, it's a bit of getting used to especially since we've been 'pampered' most of our lives. The only times we've taken full care of ourselves was when we were studying abroad. We've always been lucky enough to have people taking care of stuff for us here in Malaysia, but ever since our parents decided to move early this year, it's all up to us now.


1) Laundry... but I like doing my own laundry coz it's the gratifying feeling of freshly laundered and ironed clothes on my back that makes me happy. Hence the laundry twits lately. :P

2) Then food. We didn't want to depend on take outs, fastfood or eating out since it does get pricey and unhealthy. So we opted to cook our food, mostly from scratch. Let's face it, neither me nor Buffy are great chefs or masters in the kitchen, but I have to say we're doing quite well there. At least neither of us are dying of starvation! Hehehe. Now our conversations would include, "So what to cook tonight? You cook or I cook? What do we have in the fridge? Do we have ginger???!!".

When all else fails, instant noodle to the rescue... Don't worry, there hasn't been too much of that. We're trying to be more healthy in our food intake. Hehe. Anyways, I think I'll start taking pictures of the food I cook and post it up here from now on. They are rather unconventional "recipes" since I usually just go with the flow.

3) Next, house cleaning... this, we haven't really tackled fully. Just the sprucing up here and there. Setting things straight and putting stuff away.

4) Watering plants is also one of the things I have been told to do. But GOD has been really good to me. HE made it rain... Amen!!


I don't know if at the end of this whole experience we'll both turn into domestic goddesses but so far we're surviving alright as two single gals in the city. Besides, it's good practice for Buffy since she'll be a 'little lady' to someone soon. Muahaha!!!


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